When you’re in a womb,
Mother takes extra care of herself is only because of you;
gives you warm, thinks of your well being inside, she feels every bit of your
moments, Gets pain by your kick, feeds you her body’s
nutrition and become herself so pale and weak. Bear the pain of labor pain
more than an hour to let you out in this world. When you’re out; it is both
parent who suffer in making you a good human being;They watch you crawl, walk
and then enroll to school, gives you basic things and education.
In those span till you
stand yourself; certainly they suffer a lot; perspiration, worries, agony,
Difficulties, starvation and
tears are elements they carry in making you an adult boy or a girl.
By the time you have job on
your hand, parents become old; body wraps with wrinkles, cover with tinny bone
and thin skin. In this situation they dearly need your love and care, they
expect
More from you as you’re
their blood son and daughter. But, instead of caring your age old parent you
give more concern on your work and own family, then heartlessly turn down old
ages expectation they have expected till date; you shatter their expectation,
hopes, trust, and affection putting them in despair and vain. You have no time
for them. It’s an inevitable all of us to face the old age suffer anyhow. Seeing
all these reality it is better not to build extreme expectation. When it is not
fulfilled it is only a cause of sadness and anguish. Still then to play a role
of parents is paramount, but, without much expectation in return, I feel.
A person comes in your life
as a sole mate, distinguishes as husband and
wife in the eyes of society. You love him or her, have
believe, trust and take promise of living together forever.
Each one has a high
expectation of “love, care, concern, to lead a happy family, some even have more
expectation of wealth and to live together forever”. When we are in love we
usually forget about unforeseen future; We never expect to face
with betray, hate, humiliation, loneliness, suffers of agony and sadness. We become dump to words, deaf
to sound and blind for love. We do everything for love! Each other love crazily,
perhaps, lasting for a month, a year or a few years.
Then a few years later, if your highly desired expectation is not fulfilled by your spouse or if something may
intrudes that unable to comprehend, it holocaust peaceful relationship by then. Everything you have will become nothingness; you are betrayed, the trust you
build will collapse,
Your expectation is in
vain. But if your love is pure for what he/she is, not for wealth, instead of
thinking for taking revenge you should be able to sit and bear seeing him going
with others or alone happily. Live for his/her happiness and think fate leads
you where you are. It is better for us not to have much expectation, still then
to love every living soul is paramount.
Family, friends and society-
We think family is
everything for us, and friends for share our feelings, society is our audience who
sees what we do and renders gossip of our deed. However, we trust them and
feel they are our own. If you’re in jeopardy and
need of families support, friends help and societies eyes of truth. You expect a lot and ask their
hand for help. But, when they turn you down, you become a loner in this world;
you have no wealth to grasps their support even if your heart says you are
morally right. Truth sometimes does not work with human if one is accustomed to
materials things.
Nevertheless, love them
with not much expectation in return. Forget what they think of
you though it may be difficult to do so. As per as you have the
wealth of true heart, no matter what blocks your way, walk and face without harming
others. Move ahead with truth,
Later, you will feel the
happiness of being trued.
And will come to know who really
you are.
These are not advice I’m compelling
to do you all,
But sharing an emotional experienced by a lay
person.
